I want to join the writing challenge: " You don't need a lover...(blah blah blah)" on xanga. But part of me can't take it and write what I don't truly believe because I just can not pretend to feel that I don't
need a lover.
The world has gone mad when it started to believe that it can stand alone without love. So many people have came to believe that the feeling of needing someone to love and be loved has reflected what a needy person you are, putting a tinged of guilt to the needy.
Individualism has penetrated so much in the modern mind setting. New aged culture foolishly dictates to live independently. And so dependent people are viewed as weak while independent ones are cheered as strong. Here, the need to love and be loved becomes an old fashion, impractical kind of need. What has been replaced now is the need to be entertained with hobbies, sports, t.v, and anything that has the power to deviate our mind and heart from responding to our basic human need, love.
Now, look around you! What we have are tough, confident human beings in the public and yet suffering loneliness and emptiness in their private rooms. As a result, depression becomes the world's worst illness where love and company of someone are the only best medicine. And yet half the world remained fooling themselves they don't need someone believing they can heal their broken heart, failure and pain all alone. It's true we all die and go to our grave alone. But we are all meant to live with someone whom we can give and take love in which material stuff and even fame can not compensate.
We naturally need a lover whether we admit it or not. Because we need to give love and take what someone has to share by nature. This is the true cycle of life. No wonder why you feel life so complete after you've found your lover or soul mate after searching or waiting for so long.
Our lives has been moved with the most powerful force of life, LOVE. For me, "love and live" is my personal belief because that is life all about!
So why not attune yourself to the law of nature of love in your life?
need a lover.
The world has gone mad when it started to believe that it can stand alone without love. So many people have came to believe that the feeling of needing someone to love and be loved has reflected what a needy person you are, putting a tinged of guilt to the needy.
Individualism has penetrated so much in the modern mind setting. New aged culture foolishly dictates to live independently. And so dependent people are viewed as weak while independent ones are cheered as strong. Here, the need to love and be loved becomes an old fashion, impractical kind of need. What has been replaced now is the need to be entertained with hobbies, sports, t.v, and anything that has the power to deviate our mind and heart from responding to our basic human need, love.
Now, look around you! What we have are tough, confident human beings in the public and yet suffering loneliness and emptiness in their private rooms. As a result, depression becomes the world's worst illness where love and company of someone are the only best medicine. And yet half the world remained fooling themselves they don't need someone believing they can heal their broken heart, failure and pain all alone. It's true we all die and go to our grave alone. But we are all meant to live with someone whom we can give and take love in which material stuff and even fame can not compensate.
We naturally need a lover whether we admit it or not. Because we need to give love and take what someone has to share by nature. This is the true cycle of life. No wonder why you feel life so complete after you've found your lover or soul mate after searching or waiting for so long.
Our lives has been moved with the most powerful force of life, LOVE. For me, "love and live" is my personal belief because that is life all about!
So why not attune yourself to the law of nature of love in your life?
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